Our schedule is constantly changing and improving in little ways. Either I figure out something that would work better or the seasons change requiring different activities – or as the little ones grow older we adjust the schedule accordingly.

A schedule is a very personal thing and will look very different for each family. I have got lots of ideas from looking at other family schedules and I hope to inspire you with ideas too! But don’t be overwhelmed by the parts that don’t fit – they just aren’t right for you.

OUR MORNING SCHEDULE

  • After getting dressed and room chores, we have a fruit snack at the table with Dad. (we have our breakfast in 2 or 3 parts)
  • Then its chores time – feed the dogs and birds, clean birds cage, dishes, drying rack, sweeping, vacuuming, mopping, etc. Mom does most and helps the little ones but they all have their little jobs to do. Chores time is about 30 minutes long so we dont do all of these things everyday. When the little ones are finished their chores, I put on some music in the sunroom and they race around on their little plastic motorbikes while our 7 year old daughter and I work on lunch and supper preparation.
  • Then older ones do Bible copying and little ones do ‘lines and curves time’ with Mom (a pre-handwriting activity  – I call it that but actually it involves music, playing with sticks, building mat man, etc. – see this post for more detail).
  • Twice a week, instead of Bible copying / lines & curves with Mom we have Music time and Exercise time all together.
  • Then we have lounge time for an hour where we read missionary stories, literature, talk about history, look at our timeline and world globe, learn about animals, etc. We love learning and listening together. Everyone sits on their blankets and can do a simple colouring or puzzle activity while we read and discuss.
  • Then the little ones go to their rooms to listen to their daddy tapes (as inspired by the Maxwell family – I will write a separate post on this soon) while the older ones go to the desk to do their English and Maths activities.This helps me catch up with things after lounge time and to work with the older two on grammar and maths,and also gives me time to prepare for craft time. After daddy tape the little ones run around with a ball or go outside and get soaked (sometimes) or do puzzles at the desk with us while we finish or I put out a tactile activity for them – sometimes related to our craft e.g. playing with oats when we are learning about horses and what they eat.
  • Then its craft time. After the brain-taxing activities everyone is ready to be creative. I prefer craft time earlier in the day when I have more energy for being creative and for clean-up, than later in the day when more structured activities seem to work best.

The crafts fit loosely into a schedule ( this is more to help me think of ideas than as a rigid structure)

Monday: Cutting Sticking Drawing Foam art or stickers – puppets, pictures, etc.

Tuesday: Painting or sandart

Wednesday: Work on whatever lapbooks / virtual travel notebooks we are currently working on. e.g. put cottonwool on the sheep

Thursday: Themed craft from our history studies e.g. tower of babel – build the highest tower you can with 5 toilet rolls, some tape, some cardboard, etc

Friday: Clay or playdough

  • Once the children get lost in their craft activity and no longer need my help, I finish the lunch preparations. My husband works from home so while I don’t need to do a packed lunch more than once a week, I do need to have a substantial lunch ready.
  • We tidy up and settle down for lunch (I often put on a story CD at the dining time while we eat or we chat about what we’ve been learning – often about animals especially dinosaurs!!)

More about what happens after lunch in Our Family Schedule Part 2 – Afternoons (coming soon!)

See also – Creating a Family Schedule

“Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ. For in him dwelleth all the fulness of the Godhead bodily. And ye are complete in him, which is the head of all principality and power:” Colossians 2 v 8-10

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Here we go!   10-9-8-7-6-5-4-3 … …

No, sorry – just false labour.

All that waiting, all that morning sickness, heaviness, the uncomfortable nights, all that anticipation – waiting to begin the journey of motherhood. So exciting, so wonderful, so joyful, so hard, so draining, so emotional!

So here we go again…

10-9-8-7-6…

Nope, that wasn’t it!

Reflecting on how life is about to change – it so wonderful and exciting and terrifying all at the same time. so much to…

Woah! This must be it! 10-9-8-7-6 …

6-7-8-9-10cm dilated!!

BLAST OFF!

Wow, what a ride – far more intense than you expected – but the joy of the precious life that you hold in your arms.

How incredibly blessed you are, how full of joy!

How peaceful and wonderful  – thank you Lord!

but NOW what?

All you have ever learnt was about the launch – how to cope, what to do; but now suddenly its over. What next!

This unfamiliar environment you have landed in  – like landing on the moon – is called motherhood and you are the blessed mother!

Unchartered territory, surprises around every corner.

Training could never prepare you sufficiently for this – what do you do?

No time to study the manual!

(my hubby was so tired with our first baby that he ran full speed into a closed door  – TWICE!)

Hours of sleeplessness, blissful motherhood, the agony of feeding

Trying, learning, not knowing

HE LEADS ME BESIDE THE QUIET WATERS, HE RESTORETH MY SOUL

Slowly you resurface…

Re-entry, many bumps along the way

You remember how you used to have time to shower every day… eat meals regularly…

But you are changed forever.

This wonderful new world

This precious child

This blessed season of motherhood

Is here to stay!

Rest in Him, dear mother. You are created by God for this purpose and He will lead you. You are best mother possible for your precious child because God brought you together. Don’t be disheartened. Don’t lose hope. Yes, its one of the hardest times to go through but its the richest, most joyful wonderful time. He is so faithful!

“Hast thou not known? hast thou not heard, the everlasting God, the LORD, the Creator of the ends of the earth, fainteth not, neither is weary? There is no searching of his understanding. He giveth power to the faint; and to them that have no might he increaseth strength. Even the youths shall faint and be weary, and the young men shall utterly fall: But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; they shall walk, and not faint.”  Isaiah 40: v 28-31

What an amazing blessing it is to hear about the Duggars with baby number 20 on the way! (edited to add: We are so sorry to hear that the Duggars lost this little one in the womb at 19 weeks. Our hearts go out to them. Duggar family, we love you and are praying for you!)

I am continually AMAZED by the graceful and loving way that Michelle and Jim-Bob respond to all the invasive questions they get asked. They turn every prying question into an opportunity to share about the blessing of children, to smile and share about living debt free, their struggles, their faith and their wonderful family. Its amazing how they have given their lives for God to use to teach people about the blessing of children and faith in Him. They are never swayed in their faith or in their commitment to raising their family as God lead’s them.

I am so grateful for the encouragement of their books:

The Duggars: 20 and Counting and A Love That Multiplies

and I am so blessed to see that little Josie is doing so well after such a huge trial. It is so challenging to see how Michelle mothers her children with such love and grace and always has time for them.

Thank you Lord for the Duggar family!

“Lo, children are an heritage of the LORD: the fruit of the womb is his reward. As arrows in the hand of a mighty man; so are children of the youth.  Happy is the man that hath his quiver full of them: they shall not be ashamed, but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate.”

Psalm 127 v 3-5


Welcoming Daddy home from a short business trip!

Exploring at our favourite nature reserve and collecting interesting stick shapes

Such a beautiful view of table mountain!

Big boy!

The “dinosaur” branch that got carried around for hours.

Appreciating the view!

I finally got rid of the painting aprons – which don’t really protect or cover much and got out some of Mom and Dad’s old T-shirt for painting – they work wonderfully and cover clothes, arms, even legs on the little ones!

Painting time.

Our Russian meal – borscht (soy sausage), strudle (baby apple pies) and rosti (potato) – the best we could do, but it was fun!

Our ‘flight’ home again – Daddy the pilot.

“And the heavens shall praise thy wonders, O LORD: thy faithfulness also in the congregation of the saints.” Psalm 89 v 5